Dressing for Confidence: How to Use Color to Inspire Your Style

Dressing for Confidence: How to Use Color to Inspire Your Style

I have this glorious idea of how I will spend my time when such day arrives that I fulfill a life-long dream and vacation to the city of lights, the city of pastries, romance and love. 

The one and only splendor of Paris. 

Oh, I plan to drink in all her beauty with child-like wonder and amazement.  With wide eyes I will walk the streets and behold the old charm of her architecture.  I long to delve deep into her museums to learn her history, enjoy her artisans and be intoxicated by her lure. 

I can imagine the succulence of fresh baked croissants, warm and almost melting with every bite.  The aroma of bread, baking in the café. 

I even know what I’m going to wear.

I have envisioned this outfit for as long as I can remember.  I want red heels.  I mean bright, crunchy, candy apple, light-catching, deliciously tempting red heels.  A blue, polka-dot ruffled skirt and a crisp white blouse.  A string of pearls will adorn my neck and I will be a full-on Parisian girl. 

Polka dots in Paris.

Someday I will wear polka dots in Paris.

Would I still enjoy my trip in stripes or paisley?  More than likely.  However, there is something about polka dots that just makes me feel like I’m part of the culture, the scene, and that I belong.

That’s the funny thing about being a girl, what we wear has the ability to let our true selves shine a little brighter. 

It’s a form of expression, a way to speak to the world without saying a word. It’s not necessarily about a particular brand or style, or owning who’s-who and keeping up with “fashions” and “trends.”  (Although there are some marvelous designers in the world, let’s be honest.) It’s more about how you feel in what you wear that inspires confidence and creativity in a vibrant soul.

Clothing can have significant influence over us. 

We want to feel like modern, dominating women.  We want to say, “I dictate how I feel!  I wear my clothes, they don’t wear me!” 

How you express yourself to the world has the ability to change your own mood, inspire confidence and promote feelings of motivation and success.

Want to feel like you’re conquering the world?  Put on what makes you feel most confident. 

Want to feel warm and connected to the people around you?  Toss on your husband’s sweatshirt or pin that paper flower in your hair that your kid made you in school yesterday.  These things have the ability to affect how we feel about ourselves and others.

You may be thinking nonsense, I feel like my fabulous self no matter what I wear. 

Girlfriend, good for you! 

You have unlocked a confidence achievement level that some of us are still out here striving for!  You take that confidence and promote it brightly!  For the rest of us, what we wear can boost our mental and emotional processes in how we take on the world.

According to BrainFodder.com, “Research says the quickest little fix for a bad day is to wear brightly colored clothes. Cheerful colors work as a mini pick-me-up; and thus boosting our mood and energy. Also, we associate bright colors with happiness, sunny days, and carefree times (like the summer vacations when we were kids).”  Check out the rest of the article here.

The great news?  You do not have to be a fashionista to achieve this feeling!  Perhaps style is the furthest thing from your mind or is one of those “skills-I-wish-I-had” kinda things.  That’s ok!  You do not  have to feel less that absolutely beautiful in your own skin or with what you wear. The idea is that you feel like your best self in how you choose to express yourself to the world.  Want some pointers?

* Inspiring Self-Confidence in Your Wardrobe *

Every morning I go through this routine where I select my outfit based on my mood.  From my hairstyle all the way down to my intimates.  I am soooooo far from making it on the pages of a fashion magazine, but I choose pieces that inspire what I want to accomplish on any given day. 

Today I wanted to feel bold and I had an agenda for the morning that would keep me busy.  I wanted to feel motivated to not only start these tasks but to also finish them, so I chose a skirt with dominating stripes in bright green, black and gray.  Green inspires growth and harmony and I desired to feel optimistic and hopeful throughout my day. 

I did not have to go out and buy a new wardrobe to accomplish this feeling.  I selected what I had on hand that would suit the mood I wanted to achieve.

* Bright Colors as a Mood Booster *
The charming thing about color is absolutely the way it makes us feel!  Yellow is for joy, optimism and the color of flowers you choose to convey friendship.  Use this chart for great color reference:

Image source: Pinterest – SeeJaneWork

* Staying Classy and Sassy *
Let us remember that less isn’t always more!  Sometimes more is more.  Although we want to feel like the amazing, beautiful creatures that we are, we can also stay classy, sassy and sophisticated by leaving a little mystery to the eye. 

We absolutely do not need to drop our necklines down to solicit attention or hike those hemlines up and put ourselves on some kind of visual display.  We are confident in the colors we choose to wear and the styles in which we choose to express ourselves because we are bold, confident women. We are not objects of attention. 

We wear denim with our dresses and boots when we feel like it suits our mood.  A little modesty can go a long way!  Enjoy a little lace, a little ruffle, a red-leather jacket to the movies.  Go out and be your sassy, classy self!

Rachel Says: For more go check out Mind What You Wear: The Psychology of Fashion by Professor Karen Pine.  It’s a digital quick-read on a fresh perspective for reasons to re-vamp your wardrobe and feel like your best, beautiful self! Go grab a copy today!



  1. March 1, 2019 / 3:50 pm

    Perfect combination of style and comfort. I liked the concept of colour personality. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

    • LiveLoveDeep
      March 9, 2019 / 5:16 pm

      Its so fun to be a little sassy with our wardrobe, isn’t it! Sometimes I do it with scarves, a little bling or just the right accessory. When I want to remain more centered and focused, I wear this beaded bracelet that I recently purchased to help support women in Ethiopia who hand craft jewelry as a means of income for their families. It adds a pop to my wardrobe and reminds me to put a little more good back into the world each day, wherever I can.

  2. March 2, 2019 / 10:48 pm

    What a beautifully written post!! I have always been super fascinated with the phenomenon of fashion & confidence! It’s mindblowing how much what you wear and how you present yourself can speak VOLUMES. Even something as simple as color schemes! Truly amazing! Thank you for sharing, chica!

    • LiveLoveDeep
      March 9, 2019 / 5:07 pm

      Sometimes its the things we don’t really think about that can have the biggest impact on our day! I recently bought a new shade of lipstick and as soon as I wore it my work mates gave me so many compliments. I felt amazing that day, not just from others who noticed, but because I felt good in myself. It wasn’t the wearing of make-up that changed the day for me, but the feeling of being bold, daring and different with my choices. I had a stellar day because I FELT amazing!

  3. March 3, 2019 / 9:09 am

    Really greta post, love the colour chart you included as to what colours cause which emotions/reactions. I for one love bright colours, they cheer me up buig time! So even in a formal setting, I’ll still pop on a fuchsia pink or red lipstick at least.

    • LiveLoveDeep
      March 9, 2019 / 5:03 pm

      It’s amazing how we can add pep in our day with just a little bit of playing with colors. Fuchsia sounds fun! 🙂

  4. May 29, 2019 / 7:33 pm

    I love this because I was just saying the other day how just one simple item in my closet can perk me up. It’s a mint green spring jacket and I love how versatile it really is

    • Rachel K.
      July 18, 2019 / 3:13 am

      That’s awesome, Nici! Sounds like a beautiful piece!

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