I have this glorious idea of how I will spend my time when such day arrives that I fulfill a life-long dream and vacation to the city of lights, the city of pastries, romance and love. The one and only splendor of Paris. Oh, I plan to drink in all her beauty with child-like wonder and amazement. With wide eyes I will walk the streets and behold the old charm of her architecture. I long to delve deep into her museums to learn her history, enjoy her artisans and be intoxicated by her lure.
I can imagine the succulence of fresh baked croissants, warm and almost melting with every bite. The aroma of bread, baking in the café. I even know what I’m going to wear.
I have envisioned this outfit for as long as I can remember. I want red heels. I mean bright, crunchy candy apple, light-catching, deliciously tempting red heels. A blue, polka-dot ruffled skirt and a crisp white blouse. A string of pearls will adorn my neck and I will be a full-on Parisian girl.
Polka dots in Paris.
Someday I will wear polka dots in Paris.
Would I still enjoy my trip in stripes or paisley? More than likely. However, there is something about polka dots that just makes me feel like I’m part of the culture, the scene, and that I belong.
That’s the funny thing about being a girl, what we wear has the ability to let our true selves shine a little brighter. It’s a form of expression, a way to speak to the world without saying a word. It’s not about a particular brand or style, or owning who’s-who and keeping up with “fashions” and “trends.” It’s about how you feel in what you wear.
Clothing can have significant influence over us. We want to feel like modern, dominating women. We want to say, “I dictate how I feel! I wear my clothes, they don’t wear me!” Honestly, how you express yourself to the world has the ability to change your own mood, inspire confidence and promote feelings of motivation and success.
Want to feel like you’re conquering the world? Put on what makes you feel most confident. Want to feel warm and connected to the people around you? Toss on your husband’s sweatshirt or pin that paper flower in your hair that your kid made you in school yesterday. These things have the ability to affect how we feel about ourselves and others.
You may be thinking nonsense, I feel like my fabulous self no matter what I wear. Girlfriend, good for you! You have unlocked a confidence achievement level that some of us are still out here striving for! You take that confidence and promote it brightly! For the rest of us, what we wear can boost our mental and emotional processes in how we take on the world.
According to BrainFodder.com, “Research says the quickest little fix for a bad day is to wear brightly colored clothes. Cheerful colors work as a mini pick-me-up; and thus boosting our mood and energy. Also, we associate bright colors with happiness, sunny days, and carefree times (like the summer vacations when we were kids).” Check out the rest of the article here.
The great news? You do not have to be a fashionista to achieve this feeling! Perhaps style is the furthest thing from your mind or is one of those “skills-I-wish-I-had” kinda things. That’s ok! You do not have to feel less that absolutely beautiful in your own skin or with what you wear. The idea is that you feel like your best self in how you choose to express yourself to the world. Want some pointers?
- Inspiring Self-Confidence in Your Wardrobe
Every morning I go through this routine where I select my outfit based on my mood. From my hairstyle all the way down to my intimates. I am soooooo far from making it on the pages of a fashion magazine, but I choose pieces that inspire what I want to accomplish on any given day. Today I wanted to feel bold and I had an agenda for the morning that would keep me busy. I wanted to feel motivated to not only start these tasks but to also finish them, so I chose a skirt with dominating stripes in bright green, black and gray. Green inspires growth and harmony and I desired to feel optimistic and hopeful throughout my day.
I did not have to go out and buy a new wardrobe to accomplish this feeling. I selected what I had on hand that would suit the mood I wanted to achieve.
- Bright Colors as a Mood Booster
The charming thing about color is absolutely the way it makes us feel! Yellow is for joy, optimism and the color of flowers you choose to convey friendship. Use this chart for great color reference:
- Staying Classy and Sassy
Let us remember that less isn’t always more! Sometimes more is more. Although we want to feel like the amazing, beautiful creatures that we are, we can also stay classy, sassy and sophisticated by leaving a little mystery to the eye. We absolutely do not need to drop our necklines down to solicit attention or hike those hemlines up and put ourselves on some kind of visual display. We are confident in the colors we choose to wear and the styles in which we choose to express ourselves. We wear denim with our dresses and boots when we feel like it suits our mood. A little modesty can go a long way! Enjoy a little lace, a little ruffle, a red-leather jacket to the movies. Go out and be your sassy, classy self!
Rachel Says: For more go check out Mind What You Wear: The Psychology of Fashion by Professor Karen Pine. It’s a digital quick-read on a fresh perspective for reasons to re-vamp your wardrobe and feel like your best, beautiful self! Go grab a copy today!